New Year's Resolutions That I Totally Intend On Keeping
I've never been one for writing down resolutions for the new year, nor one to actually keep them. Sure, in theory they seem fine, and if you're the kind of person who can actually do what they say that they're going to do, then kudos to you. For me, I like to set goals in the vaguest sense of the word, because then I can accomplish them at my leisure. Speaking of which, it's already a week into 2017 and I'm slacking already on one of my resolutions (which I'll get to in a minute).
The last year was absolutely bonkers. There was so much fear, and so many deaths that by the time New Year's Eve rolled around, everyone was screaming, "just get on with it already!" It was exhausting and even for the strongest among us, made us lose a little hope. However, it's a new year, and that means a fresh start.
I started 2016 with a few simple goals.
- Take more photos
- Say, "I love you," more often to more people
I think it's safe to say that I more or less accomplished those. I traveled through India with my parents and subsequently got stuck in Brussels. Over the summer I did a road trip across Canada with my best friend and my girlfriend, and last year was the first time I ever told someone that I loved them as more than just a friend, and she stuck around! So inspite of the tumultuous year that we all just came out of, I feel pretty good about my 2016.
However, 2017 is a year in which I want to do things slightly differently. 2016 was the year I wanted to do more, so 2017 is the year I want to do less so to speak.
I want to take less photos.
Having a DSLR with a fancy new lens and a ginormous memory card makes it incredibly easy to be the guy who takes a zillion photos and keeps them all. I was recently going through photo albums with my mom, and remembered that there was once a time in which you had a set number of photos to take. You either made sure it was worth it, or lived with a blurry mess of a memory you missed out on capturing forever. There's something about that idea that I really like. I want to spend less time taking photos and trying to find the perfect composition, and spend more time interacting with my surroundings.
That ties in with social media as well. After watching the Black Mirror episode on social media and our obsession for likes, favs, hearts and stars, I had one thought - I want to think more and post less. I want to spend less time live-tweeting a movie marathon and spend more time actually enjoying it. Ever since I started dating my girlfriend last year, I noticed a shift in how and when I use platforms like Twitter. Now I use it once every few days, whereas before, it would be multiple times a day. I'm no longer concerned with cultivating my online persona so much as I just want to experience things and occasionally share what interests me.
I want to travel less.
I've done my fair bit of international travelling. It wasn't until after the events in Brussels this year that I really decided to do more domestic travelling. I want to see more of my home - whether it's my city, province, or country as a whole; I want to experience and understand the place that I live in first. I think that doing that road trip over the summer was really just the first step in doing so, and I can't wait to travel less abroad and spend more time at home.
I want to read less.
Less articles, and more books, that is. Ever since I became a Pocket user, my consumption of news skyrocketed, and my love for books plummeted. Following sites like LongReads has certainly helped to get my attention span back, but I find that it's harder and harder for me to invest myself in a novel these days. In 2016, I read maybe five novels total, and I want to change that, which means less time at night before bed scouring Reddit and Twitter and more time disconnecting and reading something less fleeting than the news.
And lastly, I want to write more. I've had this website for nearly three years now, and I haven't done nearly as much with it as I'd like. It's gone through some aesthetic changes, but beyond that, I'm not doing it nor myself justice. Up until now, I was artificially limiting what I'd write about, because I had this idea in my head of what this site should represent. I've left a lot of great ideas on the cutting room floor, because they didn't seem to fit. 2017 is the year that changes. 2017 is the year I write about what truly interests me, and far more regularly too.
There are a lot of things I want to do, but I think that by starting with less, even vaguely so, is a good thing. It'll be a good exercise for me - the withdrawal from my old routine and breaking of old habits to focus on what's good for me. Hopefully, this is something that will work, especially as we roll forward into the uncertain year that is 2017.
I hope you all have an amazing year, and let's make 2017 the best that it can be.